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92 | How Human Design can Help Guide You with Staci of CEO Essentials

April 10, 2023 Courtney McManus Episode 92
Moving through Midlife | Habit Stack & Movement Snacks for Midlife Moms, Parenting in Midlife | Fitness over 40
92 | How Human Design can Help Guide You with Staci of CEO Essentials
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Today I speak with Staci of CEO Essentials who helps CEO’s, business leaders, and entrepreneurs help to create their vision through Human Design. Even if you are not any of these, I highly recommend you listen as she walks me through my human design and helps me to see not only how I need to handle how I work within my business but also how this can help us parent better once we understand our children’s human design. I hope you enjoy this one.



What is human design and how does it work?
0:48

Can anything change your human design?
5:16

The manifester and the reflector.
10:04

Strategies to respond to opportunities.
15:09

How do you know what is correct for you?
20:39

Give yourself permission to quit when it no longer lights you up.
24:45

How do you reconcile the hermit and the networker?
29:03

How the gut communicates with us.
33:57


How to learn more from Staci of CEO Essentials
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Staci Wright is a leader in the revolution to bring heart based practices to business. She is a force of innovation and getting business ideas launched. Her 20 years of experience with more than 28 patents and 5 startups put her on the cutting edge in shaping our society through business. In addition to managing her 2 businesses, 3 products and 4 brands, she also helps support inventors and entrepreneurs in bringing their world changing visions to life.

Combining her signature Creation Formula, Human Design, and her full spectrum 'invention to market' company, she leads other good hearted entrepreneurs in bringing their visions to life with power, contributing to the positive evolution of the world.

 

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Welcome to raising healthy humans, a podcast created for busy moms where you can easily find info on health and wellness for your family. Join Courtney, a health coach movement and posture specialist and founder of form fit and active and supportive community where she helps busy moms move more here on raising healthy humans podcast. She shares personal life experiences, training, knowledge and conversations with other health and wellness experts so you can raise healthy humans. Today, I speak with Stacy of CEO essentials, who helps CEOs business leaders and entrepreneurs create their vision through human design. Now, even if you are not in a business role at this time, we all understand how we are basically the CEOs and the leaders in our household. So I encourage you to listen to this episode. Today she's going to walk me through my human design, she actually explains the different types of human design. And then she breaks down mine, which is based on when I was born, where I was born, and the Tacoma was born. And then she is going to help guide me on how I need to handle how I work within my business. But not only that, how we as parents can help out raise our children once we understand their human design, as well. So I hope you enjoyed this episode. I thought it was a lot of fun. Ice Stacey, how are you? I'm good. How are you, Courtney? I'm good. I'm excited to have you on today with me. Yes. So can you explain what exactly you do? Well, that's gonna take a minute. I'm actually I'm an entrepreneur by nature. So I've had five businesses over the last 20 years. Currently, I have two companies, two patents, three products for brands. And I teach this thing called Human Design and what what human design, how I got into that it was five years ago, I was starting over as a middle aged single mom. After having gone through divorce and a lawsuit and some really nastiness that happened. I learned about human design when I was really just starting over from scratch. And, and what happened from that moment five years ago, to where I'm at today is all a direct result of me following my human design. So now, what I like to do is teach other people have help other people find their path on that. But I also do a lot of other things with that. Okay, so we discussed that you are going to walk me through my human design. Yes. Okay. Let's back up just a little bit and talk. Okay, yeah, yeah, tell me everything I need to know. What is human design? Okay, so human design is a system of wisdom. That brings us back to who we are, who we were authentically created to be each one of us is very unique, and were made very unique. We each have a purpose to rock to play in this world. But we're raised in a society that tells us we shouldn't be who we are, that we shouldn't be something different. If we're too exuberant, then we have to hold our energy back. If we're too meek, then we need to be more outgoing. There's all of these things that were taught along our path by well meaning people, because they would be terrible to be ostracized from society. So our parents, you know, looking out for our best interests will help us fit into society. So we're not ostracized. But what that ends up doing is it pulls us unless, unless our parents do this in a very strategic, intentional way, it pulls us away from the truth of who we who we came here to be. Okay, so human design it, it puts us back on the path to who we truly are. Now, the whole science behind human design, there's a neutrino stream coming in from the universe, and we're bathed in it all the time. It's all around us all the time. The moment we are born, we take in our first breath, we breathe in the neutrino stream of that moment, and it imprints us with our design. So that science behind it, so that's why it's important, you know, your time, date and place of birth because it's very specific, each human design chart is very specific to them. So that is what human design is in a nutshell. So is it astrological? It actually combines like six different ancient wisdoms. So, incorporate some astrology Did you but it also incorporates some chakra system work. It also incorporates some quantum physics, it also incorporates the Cabal. So there's several different ancient wisdoms that are combined in this chart, which why I think it makes it so incredibly powerful. Okay, it's all in one. And can anything change your human design? Or is like it set? Away? Obviously, we can make decisions that may affect our human design. Right, but I don't know, you let me know. Like, yeah, that's an excellent question. The human design is more of a design of, you know, here are some, here's how you're designed to operate. It doesn't say, here's what's going to happen in your life. Okay? Okay. So it's more about, here's how you're designed. It's like an owner's manual. Here's how you're designed to make decisions, designed to interact with others, and gift to the world. Now, you can go and play with that and do a multitude of different things and have multitudes of experiences, all completely different people born on the same day, and they have completely different lives. It's the design is what set that design, it's kind of like having a very complicated piece of machinery, right? You can use it for multiple purposes, but you need to know how it works. And once you know how it works, then maybe you know, if you have this, you know those elaborate sewing machines where you can embroider and you can do all these different things with it. Right? Know how to work it, and when you know how to work it, then you can create all kinds of magic. But if you don't know how to work it, or if you only know how to do one thing, then you're very limited with that machine. Okay, human design gives you the owner's manual. Okay, and then does this provide? And I'm sure we'll get into this, but does it provide us things based on different areas of life, like business relationships, things like that, or human design is more about the design, it's not about the external what that looks like, externally. So it really is about strategy. It really is about your energy field. It really is about what how you're designed to make decisions. Okay, it has more to do with that. And then it has, like I said, many different applications. Now, there's some types that you'd be better at in this job career than maybe a different one based on your type. Absolutely. Okay. Like I said, you know, there's there's five different types in all of human design. And those five different types can look very different in each individual person. Okay, can you tell us the five different types? Because I'm assuming I'm one of those five types? Right? Yeah. Okay. Can you just share just real quickly? The five different types and whatever information you want to provide for that? Excellent. Yes. So there's a generator type generator type covers 70% of the population. So the majority of people are going to be in the generator type. So generator has two different types within the one type. So there's generators that are generators, then there's the manifesting generators, okay. generators, and manifesting generators have consistent access to workforce energy when they're doing things that are fulfilling for them. So they're designed to do things that are fulfilling, and when they are doing things that are fulfilling their energy will replenish itself over and over and over. Okay, that's designed and the generator generators, like energy, they can generate energy. Okay. So the generator specifically is designed to go deep into one thing and become an expert in that one thing, where a manifesting generator is designed to be multi passionate, which is okay, manifesting generator doesn't go as deep, they go more broad more wide, and learn things really quick and they get bored really quick. And so they're constantly moving from one thing to the next. Okay? Okay, so I'll tell you about all of them. And you can tell me what you think you are, oh, I already know what I'm stuck, I keep going. So that then okay, so they're, they're each equal probably about 30 35%. Between each one of those. Then there's the projectors, which is 20% of the population. The projectors are designed here to be the guidance. They don't have that regenerative generative workforce energy, they don't have access to that fixed access to that. So they are more designed to be the guides of the world. They are designed to guide the generators in doing the work so the generators do all the doing. The projectors are more the guides. So in in human design, when we're talking about the evolution of humanity, the generators are imprinted with the future of humanity. Hmm, okay. In their DNA, they hold the future of what we will be. And so their design aim to guide us. Future is crazy. I know. Okay. Okay, next one is the manifester, and the manifester is only 9% of the population. Okay, this type has a very penetrating field, it's very repelling, so when but they have this enormous energy that comes in really fast and really hard, but then peters out. So they're the sprinters. So they're designed to blaze a trail, blaze a path, and then let other people continue the path. So they're not the long term sustainers, they're the ones that are really they've got a tremendous amount of power coming at you in the very beginning and then then they need to rest, so that's the the manifester. Okay, then there is the reflector, which is only 1% of the population. And that is designed to be a mirror for the rest of us to see who we are. So they're designed to it's a really, really small percentage of the population. And they're designed to reflect what what the environment that they're in. So if you want to see how well the community is doing, if you find the reflector, you can kind of see in the reflector, what their environment looks like. So they're basically a reflection of what they live around. Long. Okay, and each of those has their own strategy on how to do things. So each so that's just that's the five basic types. Each type has a strategy. So generator type their strategies to respond. So they have a magnetic field that's all around, it's very warm and enveloping. And they're designed to respond to life, so that they're not the trailblazers, although sometimes they think they are, and when they get into trouble acing, and it's not correct, then they run up into all kinds of walls, right. So the job is to respond. The manifester is job is to inform, because they have so much energy coming at one time, it can be repelling to others, and others offer resistance. And so for their strategy for them to be able to move through life with ease, is to let people know before they get this burst of energy and go forward. So letting people know, hey, I'm fixing to do this. So y'all don't interrupt me until I'm done. Because they need to, they need to not be interrupted. So their strategy is to let people know, hey, I'm fixing to blaze a trail. So move and then we'll talk after it's done. Okay, the projector is to wait to be invited. So they have all this wisdom, and all this guidance for others. And the hardest thing for projector is to wait for somebody to recognize the wisdom in them and call it out. So there are strategies to wait to be recognized for their wisdom. And when they are, they're there to guide those people. But they're not here to guide everybody. So they have to wait to be invited in for somebody to recognize their wisdom and then they have to share. Okay, reflectors. Strategy is to wait a full moon cycle. So they they're very slow. Very slow. Yeah. I mean, yeah, we're, we're reflectors, but their precious, precious precious people. Okay, so now, what I like to do is jump into your chart and give a better view of the depth of what the chart gifts. Okay, okay. Okay. And I think I'm a manifesting generator. Thinking, yeah. Everything you said was like, that's so me. Like, when you were like you think you are? The blazing Trailblazer like, Oh, yes. Yes. And that's the crazy thing about when you hear about your design, there's this resonance of truth inside of you. And you just know that. Yes, sometimes we're so far conditioned away from who we truly are, that sometimes we don't recognize it. But there's something deep down inside that recognizes the truth. Yes, yes. And the fact that you you throw your net far and wide and can't focus on anything, I think you've kind of commented that. You want to be in all the things and that again, is me. Yes, yes. Yes. Yes. So you've probably been told all your life. Pick a lane and stay in it. Figure out what you want to do and do it. A Yeah, honestly, I have had my family has been very good about just letting me run free. I think that's more a me thing. Like, yeah, figure this out. Like, stop, because I frustrate myself. Yeah, okay. All right. Well, we're gonna talk about frustration because you see frustration right here. First, frustration is your indicator that you're going against your design. So whenever you feel frustration, it's like your check engine light thing ding ding Okay, what am I where am I out of alignment with who I am. Okay, you see, the manifester type is strategies to respond. So manifester is like I said, they're designed to be multi passionate to do multiple things at once they're the great multitaskers manifesting generator is the the the newest type in human design is okay. In the evolution of humanity. You know, these different types come along, when they come along, well manifesting generators that is the most recent, it's like the what do you call it the, the superstar of all of them, they can they learn things really quickly, they get bored really easily, they move from thing to thing, when they're lit up about something, the passion they have is enormous, and they can move mountains with that passion. So the strategy for a manifesting generator is to wait to respond. So when an opportunity shows itself, if you get that lit up, feeling, you move towards that, and that's how you're designed to to have life show up for you. The difference with a manifesting generator from a generator, though, is when something comes across your path and you respond with that, yes, with that let lit up, you can blaze a path. So manifesting generators actually can blaze a path, but it needs to be in response to something. Okay, so that's the difference. Okay. Okay. So it's not just get an idea and then go make it happen, like the manifester in a way for something to come across, an opportunity comes across or a person you meet and you follow an opportunity, when you're lit up about it, you move towards that. And when you're lit up in the passions there and the inspirations there, you can blaze. Okay, so this should mean don't like kind of sit in. So what I should be doing is sitting and waiting for that thing. To come? Yes. Okay. And with your, with your magnetic fields, you're pulling in opportunities all the time. Now, the magnetic field has a key. And to turn on the strength of that magnetic field, it is your is being passionate about what you do. Okay, so doing things that you feel passionate about, if there's something in your business that you don't feel passionate about, or in your household, finding ways to delegate that to others. The key for a manifesting generator is to be doing what they're passionate about, as much as possible. And that's, that's really, that's the key, because that when you're doing that it turns on your magnetic field, and then all these opportunities just come not. Okay. And you can do things you can accomplish things that you never thought were possible, when you're waiting to respond when you're responding to what life brings, because there's this huge magnetic field that's lit up. So that is your type and your strategy. Okay, so what if nothing's coming to you? You just sit and keep waiting? Because it's not the time you rest? Yep. Okay. Self Care. Yep. Exactly. Yeah. Dream, meditate. Take a bath, take a walk. Like literally just like, if you get the idea in your own head, you do not respond. You wait for an outside force. Yes. Yes. And what that looks like, because I'm a manifesting generator to ideas all the time. Yes. So I'll get an idea. And then I'll think about it. And I'll say, a bit like, if it's a yes, I'll say yes, I love that idea. And then I'll move on and do whatever's next for me to do and for the next thing to come. Okay, okay, just in saying yes to the energy field, then that tells the energy, yes, bring that. And then suddenly, the next thing will come and the next thing will come. And then there could be now you'll know, when you're turned on, you know, when your energy when you are passionate, and you're just, everything's like moving out of the way and you're just it's like butter moving through. Time to go. Right. Okay, all of that. But when it starts getting hard, yes, starts getting resistance when you start coming up against walls. That's when you take a step back and you say, Okay, time to go do something else. Mm hmm. Yep. Mm hmm. And see, that's why what I have found so beautiful, full about having two businesses is because when when the energy is on for one, I can focus on that and move forward but then when the energy turns off, typically the energy for the other ones turned on and then it will play over We're here. So it gives me a distraction. Otherwise I'm wanting to go go go. Okay, this is amazing, because I have noticed when I follow what all the professional say about, you can't split your focus into two different things. You got to focus on one. I start to fall apart. Yes. Yeah. This falls apart, everything falls apart. And if I think back to when things were moving quick, quick, quick. It was because I had two different things going at once. Yes, yes. That is correct. For you. Okay. Okay. Yes, yes. So meaning somebody else who's a generator, then that would be good for them? That would feel good, right? It would actually. But that's not how you're designed. So your design is to be multitasking emote doing multiple things? Okay. Perfect. Yes. So that's the, that's what we're talking about finding that uniqueness about us. Right? That and embracing that. And then experimenting with this. Now, this is something I didn't say at the beginning. But if I say anything, or if anybody says anything about human design that doesn't fit, just let it go, do what fits and let the rest go. There are so many different aspects to a chart, right? That make, it could switch things up a little bit. So if anything I say doesn't fit, it's okay. Just I'm giving you enough information that you can go out and say, Okay, now I understand this about me, I'm gonna play with this. I'm gonna experiment with this. And let's see what happens. And what will happen is life will show you exactly what is correct for you. Okay, they call it human design experiment, because don't take my word for any of it, take what fits, go play with it, and you'll get your own results. Okay. Okay. So there's three main things that are important for your experiment. One is the type and strategy that we just talked about. The next one is the inner authority, the inner authority has to do with how you're designed to make decisions. Human Design says, We're, it is not in our best interest to make decisions with our mind. And here's why. What we our minds are conditioned with what we've been doing in the past. If we use our conditioned minds to make decisions today, for our future, we're going to have a future. That's what we've had in the past. So if we're creating new, which we are, we're in the evolution we're changing, we're shifting. We can't make decisions with our minds. So then how do we make decisions? That's the big question, right? So according to human design for you, your inner authority is emotional. And you're a generator. So generators, decision making is always the gut. It's always what lights them up, and it's a yes or no. You're either turned on or turned off. That's the decision maker. Okay. Now, because because you have emotional authority, that means you have a consistent emotional way. You're going up and down, you're you're an emoting type, then half the population is non emotive. The other half is emotive, you are putting emotions out into the world. So you have a consistent wave of emotion. Yep. So you are not designed to have clarity in the moment. You're designed to have clarity over time. Yes, and I have learned this about myself. And it's funny, because the person who edits this is gonna be like, Oh, my goodness, she's so spot on with this. Because I'll say, I'll immediately say no to something. And then an hour, two hours later, I'm like, You know what? I like that idea. Yeah, I need time. I need time. Yes, yeah. And that's correct for you. So if you have a big decision, it's better to say, let me sleep on it. Okay. And when you have a consistent answer over a day or two, then you know, that's the correct answer. But you can say yes to something when you're way up here. And then all of a sudden, when you're going down, you're like, What was I thinking? Okay. So for you clarity over time, they decisions sleep on it. Don't expect yourself to be able to make decisions in the moment. But when you do have the the response is from your gut, you're lit up or you're not. So if you're lit up, you move towards it, even if your mind says no. That's the experimenting part. Like okay, my bed is really lit up about this. Oh, Am I insane? It doesn't make sense. I'm going to experiment and go and then you see how it works out and then your mind starts to calm down a little bit. Okay, over time. Okay. The other thing for the manifesting generators, I just want to say this real quick, give yourself permission to quit. Okay, when it no longer lights you up, you can quit. Yeah, we're told never to quit not to quit. I was the PTO president for the high school. A couple years ago, and the first year I did it, I was super lit up, the principal was doing this new emotional intelligence, which I was super lit up about. And she needed some help getting the kids to buy in. So I put together this incentive program where they raised money from the businesses. And we had parties every six weeks for kids who are getting the emotional intelligence. It was a fun year. And then the next year came, and the curriculum actually became a part of the curriculum in the school. So it was no longer an add on or they didn't need incentives for it. And so it was just a normal PTO year, and I was not lit up about it at all. And I went to two meetings. And I realized, this is draining my energy. I am not lit up about this, and I am supposed to quit when I'm not lit up, right? I'm supposed to be following what lights me up. But my head said, Oh, no, no, no, no, you cannot quit. You got to finish what you started. If you quit, now they're going to what are they going to think about you? And then I saw I had this decision to make. And I thought, You know what I'm experimenting with my human design. I'm going to quit and see what happens. So I turned in my resignation. Immediately somebody stepped up and was lit up about taking on the president role and did a fantastic job. And nobody, nobody judged me for quitting. Hmm, it was, yeah, had that hang up. On me, I could have finished that year begrudgingly, and did a great job. Everybody did that for the school, it would have been bad for the PTO, it would have been bad for me. Like nobody was winning in that. Right? But giving myself permission to quit and be kind of flip it worked. It works magically. So it's important to give yourself permission to quit as a manifesting generator. That is correct for you to do what lights you up when you when it lights you up. Okay. Okay, so we talked about authority. So we talked about strategy, authority. And now the third part is your profile. And the profile are these two numbers, everybody has two numbers, and they range from one to six. Okay, so the each number represents something different. This is what your gift is to the world or how you're designed to you're more about your purpose in life. Okay, so two is your primary number four is your secondary number two is called the hermit. And so the hermit needs, it needs time alone, for sure, as the name implies, but the other thing that's interesting about the hermit is that you are designed to do what comes natural for you. And you may not even know what that is, but other people will pull it out of you. Okay. So being being well rested, is a strategy for you, and being present, or what people need around you. You'll find out what your gifts are. Right, they will be shown to you through your interactions with others. And the four, the four is the they call it the opportunist, which I don't know why they call it that. But the four has to do with network network network. Like if you have a four in your profile, and you're deciding whether to invest your time in personal development, or invest your time in building your network. Your network is really important. Okay, so you definitely want personal development, but network network network network. So for a for literally, if you have a business. You don't even have to worry about advertising. Like literally all of your effort should be in networking, building relationships with others doing that. That is where all of your opportunities come from that is where your gifts will rise. That is really, networking is Your gift and your forte bringing people together. Yes, that it is. I have I just said that to myself the other day. What are you very good at? I am good at building communities connecting people together. Like I'm very good at that. Yeah, what I would like to ask you being a hermit and a networker. Right, this is my internal struggle, belief. I like to be alone. I mean, I do. Yeah, I'm my husband jokes all the time that I am a cat. I only like I'm like, leave me alone until I want you know, to be right. Talk to spoken with whatever. But then I like to. I like community aspect. But how do you reconcile that they seem to be opposites. They are right the hermit and The Networker. Like, how does that work? Yes. And I think I've gotten too comfortable with my herding, especially due to like, COVID. Yes. And it's, I'm struggling with the networking aspect. Okay. What's the struggle part of that? Oh, because I'm cozy where I'm at. I just want to be, okay. Okay. So what I would recommend is just be and be cozy and do that until you're inspired to do something else until something comes that says, hey, here's a networking opportunity, and I'm lit up about it, you'll have no problem going with it. The problem comes when we're trying to force ourselves into something that doesn't feel natural. Yes. And you said that already that I, I need to wait for something to come. And I think that's where I'm struggling. I'm like, where do I need to go to find this? Yes. And okay. Yes. And that's, if that can wait. It's just, yeah, you enjoy your time alone, enjoy it, fully, embrace it, enjoy it, and know, when the time's right. There'll be something come come along, that lights you up, and you will have no problem going forward with it. Okay. And then on the other side, is just making sure you know how much time you need alone. And you make sure you honor that. So and then only doing the networking when you're inspired to do it when you're lit up to do it. Right. That's the key. Okay. Yeah. So with those three things, now, you can go out and have your own experiment, right. And life can start showing you what's correct for you. And it's magical how this happens. Literally, it's magical. And there's so much more in depth in the chart, you see all these different shapes and colors and white, and you know, some of them are colored in and some of them are white, they each have a different meaning a different representation. So like this one's colored in, that's your emotional center, that's what makes you an emotional inner authority person this year is your workforce energy, it's lit up, because your generator, every generator has this lit up, every other type has this, the sacral not lit up. So each one of these represents something different and how you bring your energy to the world. And so I've just given you the top, right. And it's plenty enough for you to find out what is correct for you. And then the rest of it, you can explore and learn and go so deep and get more pieces of the puzzle that can answer so many questions along the path. But as far as your experiment goes, strategy, authority and profile, you follow those three things, and then life will show you exactly what's correct for you. Okay, um, is this something where we then dive deeper with you? And you help us walk us through further? Is that what you can? Yes, there's Yes, I offer multiple containers for people to work with me on human design specifically, okay, a mastermind, where it's a small group of women and we stay together for six months. And we go deep into everybody's chart, and we're learning from each other. We're bringing our experiments together. And everybody's really learning from the whole group, which is a powerful, powerful way to learn anything with human designs, and we're not we don't have a one person does not have everything that we need, we need other people. And when we're with other people, different things come out. Okay, so being in a group, you get to see more about yourself than you would ever see alone. Then I also have some other containers that are more one on one that people can check out on my website. So if they but you can get your chart for free. And on my website, on the Courses tab, there's a whole human design section, there's some free stuff in there where you can learn how to get your chart, how to read your chart, what different parts of your chart mean. So there's a whole section there that's free that anybody can go and take advantage of. And then there's some other opportunities to work with me that are paid. Okay, so when, like you said, you're a manifesting generator, I'm assuming that like your numbers might be different than mine. And then all those other little things off the side and the numbers within like the solar plexus those are all different from mine. And that's where you really start to dive into more understanding of how the gut is what communicating with you or whatever like your solar plexus how right and some of the other parts so the so you say like the emotional center. So you have your emotional center defined, which means you are in you have a consistent fixed access to emotions. I'm undefined in the emotional department. So my emotional center is white, which means I'm taking in everybody else's emotions and and okay, for me, it's very painful to be around a highly motional person when it's a negative emotion, because I amplify it, and that's just my design by design, I'm taking in other people's emotion. Okay, open, it's called the Open opens, and I'm not, you're not, you're putting the emotions out. That's interesting, because I always felt like I was one because I would classify myself as a highly sensitive person that I feel like I take on everybody's energy. And people drain me, some people, you know, like, negativity completely drains me. So I would have thought that I would have been that, but I'm not. And see, those are the things that can be conditioned, we can be conditioned to be highly sensitive. A lot of times, there's different things that happen in our childhood that conditioned us to that. So let it be stuff that happens later. Because I don't remember always being completely like this. Yeah, it can be a trauma can can cause this, an extended period of chronic stress can cause losing friends, being ostracized, can create some of this tendency to be more sensitive to other people, because that's painful, right? We don't want to go through that again. So now I'm going to be super Intune, and super in touch with others. So there's many different facets. And here's the beautiful thing about human design, Human Design tells you what you're designed to be. And then we we can start unconditioned or deconditioning. What we've been conditioned when we live our design, so Okay, so the the originator of human design says, if you follow your strategy and authority for seven years, you will decondition your mind. Hmm. And I'll give you just a quick example of what this looked like for me, because when I was first starting, starting from scratch, so what kind of business am I going to have now? What am I going to do? had no clue, got an invitation to join a national entrepreneurs club? And I thought it really lit me up, like my gut was saying, yes, go, it was $10,000. And I was like, my mind was like, Hell, no, no, no, no, you cannot spend $10,000. Right now you're in between businesses, right? steady income. But I was in my experiment. And I thought, You know what, I'm going to experiment with this. I'm gonna go. And I went, that was so scary, because my mind was terribly against it. Right? But I wrote the check. And I went, and so I showed up to the first meeting in North Dakota met some great people came back home. Literally, I was not lit up about it anymore. That was lit, it was gone. It was like$10,000. And I don't even want to go to any of these meetings anymore. That's insane. But I forced myself to go to the meetings because by golly, I paid for it. money's worth. Every time I went to the meeting, I left feeling worse. Oh, no rained. And so finally, I thought, You know what, I'm giving myself permission to quit, because that's what I'm supposed to do. And I thought, well, that was a really expensive lesson. Yeah. Yeah. So fast forward a year, a whole year later, I start working on an new project. So a friend of mine started talking about starting a business and I got really lit up about it. My head was saying, No, you don't even know this person, right? You barely know her. You can't go into business with somebody, you don't even know all of the things. But my gut said, Yes. I'm an experiment. I'm gonna go. So we started this business. And part of our business is developing patents and developing new inventions. So we needed a patent attorney to write up the patents we were working on. And that's a very expensive project. We wanted to find a patent attorney who was also entrepreneurial. And it just so happens at the very first meeting, I went to in that entrepreneurs club, I sat next to a patent attorney who was an engineer or two was an entrepreneur. And we hit it off famously, like he looked like a brother, we had a great conversation. So I called them up. I'm like, do you want to be a part of this? And he said, Absolutely. And he's since written more patents for us than$10,000 worth. I was yeah, he was your he was what that $10,000 was meant for for him. Right? Exactly. So it gets in the way, right? Of what's correct for us. So that was an experiment that taught me, okay, I can trust my gut. And then then I got braver and braver and braver to where now my mind doesn't conflict with me anymore. My mind just kind of goes, Okay, we're gonna go see what happens now. Okay, she comes along for the ride. So it was able I was able to decondition all the logical linear has to make sense through through experimenting. Right. Okay. But you have to commit to seven years. No, I think I think that was just his opinion, because our psychologists do every seven years, but eight right. It starts happening immediately. The testing process every time you you experiment, and it works out each time, right? It lessens your mind resistance gets less and less. Gotcha. Okay. Okay, um I don't want to let me know, how do we learn? How can we learn more from you? Okay, so if you want to learn more from me, it's best on Facebook or Instagram, I'm pretty active on those two, I have the same handle for both. And it's Stacy dot Renee, that CEO. Okay, as Tracy i and Renee is our E N E. So on either one of those channels, you'll see me a lot of videos, a lot of content, a lot of that kind of stuff. The website is CEO essentials.net If anybody wants to go and look up the beginnings of how to get involved with human design, okay, and then we will put the information in the show notes. And I do want to ask you one question, since this is about raising healthy humans, are there things that we can learn within human design that help us to raise children better? Or, you know, yes, yes. Big Fat, yes. If we can, if we can raise our children according to their design, oh, our world is going to be a much different place when they get to be adults. Also, it gives us clues and insights into them that we wouldn't have otherwise. So just an example of my my daughter was a manifester, who had strong emotions. I'm an open emotional center, but it's warm and open and enveloping. And she's repelling. So the two of us together, it was really difficult. And when she had anger, which was normal and natural, and we all have it, it would send me like, to another place. That was just awful. And so understanding that gives me the ability to say, Okay, this is her anger, it's not, doesn't have to impact me. So I can breathe through my own reaction. And understand that she's not she doesn't want questions asked of her, where I'm like, let's talk what's going on in that, with her repelling auric fields, she doesn't want that. So when I quit asking questions, she started opening up. But had I not known that? Right, I keep asking questions, and it would just make her mad. So there's definitely definitely things that we can learn about our kids through human design that will help enormously raise healthy humans for sure. Okay, and we can go to your site, and we can get all of this information. And then we dive deeper with you through either masterminds or one on one so we can really pull it all together. Yes, yes. Now, I will say you can also go Google, what does it mean to be a manifesting generator in human design? And you can, there's lots of videos and writings on there that you can also research? What does it mean to be a two, four? How do I reconcile the two and the four? Right? The people are writing about that and talking about that all the time. So there's a lot of free resources out there, too, if somebody just wanted to start Google searching, right, but sometimes guidance is better than free. Right? That's true. That's true. Yes. It can take more time to Yeah, yeah. If you want to fast track mastermind, we'll take you there really quick. We'll give you 10 years worth of self awareness in six months. Awesome. Awesome. All right, perfect. Anything else that you'd like to share with us? Or if there's one thing parents can do right now? I mean, obviously, we already know we need to go find out what our human design is. But anything that you want to recommend to us to help us get started? I say just get started as quickly as possible, because you will you will be so glad you did when you get down the road. Yeah. Perfect. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to speak with me and share with me my human design. This was awesome. That was fun. That was fun. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to introduce that to you. Thanks for taking the time out of your day to listen to our podcast. We hope you found this information valuable and can incorporate it into your family's life. Make sure to check out our show notes for all the important links available. Come join us on Facebook and moms raising healthy humans community page. Also, please check out our wide range of memberships, family monthly focus ideas, challenges, live events and on demand and live workouts, meal plans and so much more head to form fit online.com And as always, keep moving